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So, I’ve been absent from both the BBA blog and Facebook page as of late and here it is–almost a month since my last post! For those who don’t know me personally, we (my little family and I) have been getting ready to move and have been SUPER BUSY getting our house ready for our next endeavor. However, I have not forgotten about the BBA community and what I sometimes call “my second child” when I refer to the blog. In fact, I’ve been creating a challenge for myself (and you, if you’d like to join) and it is finally time to share that challenge! Are you ready? Please say yes because I am EXCITED and ready to dive in head first for this one!
On my birthday my amazing husband took me to a bookstore in Columbus. Not just any bookstore, a bookstore with OVER 30 ROOMS of books! Now, I am somewhat of a bookworm, a nerd, a person who loves to get lost in some literature so this was a great birthday gift; especially when I walked away with Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls by Jes Baker. It is an amazing, empowering, and completely-body-positive read that I HIGHLY recommend to each and every one of you but especially for those who fill the “plus size” category. Throughout the book Jes gives readers little challenges that are from her blog post “25 things fat people shouldn’t do” . Intrigued by this, I decided to develop my own list of challenges, as some of hers didn’t exactly apply to be (because I either already do them or they aren’t really my thing anyway). Are you ready? Drum roll please….
- Wear bold patterns
- Wear bright colors
- Wear bikinis
- Eat dessert in public
- Wear leggings/skinny jeans as pants
- Wear horizontal stripes
- Wear a tight fitting dress
- Follow their dreams and be successful
- Be happy and confident in themselves and their appearance
- Do cartwheels
- Swing into the water (rope swings)
- Swing on a swing set
- Do yoga (**for me, in a group setting**)
This list was derived from things I found on the internet that fat people, particularly women, “shouldn’t” do, as well as the list Jes posted. Well guess what, I am going to do them. I am going to do all 15 of them in the calendar year 2016. While some of these I already have done, I am challenging myself to doing them a little differently. For example, wearing leggings. If you follow BBA on Facebook you know I love leggings and even have some that are bright patterns; however I have one pair of leggings that will be particularly challenging for me: red leggings with pieces of cake on them. Yes, the design looks like little squares of cake. I thought they were cute but of course my brain says, “You can’t wear those! You look like all you do is eat cake all the time and then people will think the same thing.” Um, newsflash dear brain, people will think all I do is eat cake if they want to regardless of what my leggings have on them; therefore I will wear these leggings in public sometime soon!
As I embark on this new *challenging* adventure I’m asking you to take this journey with me! If you decide to accept this challenge, join me in posting your challenge photos on the BBA page as you complete them. Share your photos on Instagram using #BBAChallenge. Make some of your own challenges that fit you and share those with the BBA Community on social media. I look forward to seeing people step out of their comfort zones and step into a challenging, confident new direction!
With Body Love,